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The donut tradition is so awesome! We make mac n' cheese every year and whatever friends the kids have circling around come over before hand to eat. I love all your points about the kids' independence on this night and the aberration from the routine. On the point of the "pattern separation" though I have a different POV. I feel like in NYC there is always something going on - the elephant migration art, Diwali fireworks, West Indian Day parade, Mexican Independence Day celebration, someone's birthday, free jazz concert, outdoor movie - that every day feels like a pattern separation and I sometimes long for the routines and steadiness I grew up with in the suburbs of Boston. Anyway, love this post and your take on the holiday. Hope it's really fun!

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That's the magic of New York - it breaks all the patterns for you🥰

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Oooo I love that take! That's so good - the springboard for a post all its own.

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Any reason for jaywalking...and donuts (fried in ghee) I am there!

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I worry about parents becoming less and less willing to let their kids trick or treat. In my area, it's becoming more common for parents to drive their kids door-to-door (I live in the suburbs not the country) and to do trunk-or-treats. I get that they can be good for very little kids but for kids old enough to remember walking around a parking lot for 15 minutes cannot come close to the experience of trick or treating for hours.

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I love this 🧡 such a fun community holiday!

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I'm in the UK, just outside of London and we look forward to this day all year! So great for kids and a wonderful way of creating memories!

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I grew up in the London suburbs 50 years ago and still remember the visceral thrill of being allowed out alone, with friends, in the cold and dark. Halloween was a much simpler holiday in those days - apple bobbing and homemade costumes - but those unaccompanied wanderings raised it to another level.

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