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Jenny F.'s avatar

Would be useful to read a version of this that does not assume intensive parenting, affluence and leisure, or a home in the suburbs or country.

I was homeschooled in a 3 bedroom apartment in Brooklyn. 5 kids, parents and grandma. A lot of library books. Instead of hoarding possessions we visited museums and playgrounds. Material objects, curated and left sitting around a house, are not the only way to reliably form curious and intelligent children. I wanted to make that quite clear, for any homemaker or mother who reads this with a sigh of defeat and goes back to cutting coupons and organizing receipts.

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Emily's avatar

Spot on, Katherine! Dr. Maria Montessori and Dr. Shinichi Suzuki are two of my most admired educator influences, and both stress the idea that the environment educates the child — it feels “natural” to them but it’s carefully planned by the parent. Whether your school / teacher is awful or amazing, your children will spend far more time in your home, and you control a lot more about the way life looks and feels there.

Re Liz’s comment: it’s very possible to step into a wealthy environment that feels alienating and cold, or a nurturing one where coupon-cutting also takes place. I’d go so far as to say most of us have probably experienced this reversal at some point!

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